A Simple Valentine’s Prescription

February 13th, 2019 Posted in writing | No Comments »

“Sclerocardia” sounds like the name of a medical condition, but it actually describes not a physical condition but a spiritual one. It means that our hearts (our souls, if you will) which are meant to be loving, tender, open and welcoming are angry, judgmental and closed to others. We are, in other words, hard-hearted.

Where does such a condition come from? It may come as the result of being unloved, being subjected to unending criticism or having too many experiences of failure and rejection. All of these, over time, make a person almost incapable of living a life of faith, hope or love.

Every February many of us celebrate Valentine’s Day, when we are invited to express our love for others and receive the love of others for us. To practice this every day, or as often as we can, is the prescription for counteracting hardness of heart. If we followed that prescription there would be more peace in the world and our hearts would come to more and more resemble the heart of Christ.



Let Me Think About It

January 5th, 2019 Posted in writing | No Comments »

During the Advent and Christmas seasons we hear several times the story of Mary’s yes to God’s asking her to bring his Son into the world. She wasn’t told a lot of specific details, but trusting that the invitation was from God, her response was an immediateYes.”

It’s worth asking ourselves if we would be as quick to say yes as Mary was, because, in fact, the same invitation God offered to her comes to each of us. God asks us, “Will you be willing to bring my Son into your world — not just the big world of culture, politics or the media, but, just as importantly, into the smaller world where you work, where you live, your friendships, your family and those around you who are suffering or in need?”

We might answer, “I’m certainly flattered that you asked, Lord, but let me think about it if you don’t mind.” Then, as we mull it over, we may conclude that reluctantly we have to say no, a response motivated by believing we are too sinful, too old, too young, not smart enough or skillful enough or that our faith is too weak. At the core of our reluctance to say yes could also be a fear that comes from not knowing all the details of what saying yes might mean.

But all through our lives we need to remember that none of us can depend on ourselves alone to do what God invites us to do. God’s invitations always come with the assurance that God isn’t looking for perfectly qualified people but, rather, people who are willing to say, as Mary did in her answer, Yes, Lord. I’m at your service. Let whatever you wish be done.


A Thought for Christmas 2018

December 24th, 2018 Posted in Uncategorized, writing | No Comments »


Fling wide the door for Jesus’ coming.

Open your soul,

Stretch out the arms of your mind,

Expand your heart,

Run to meet the Eternal Light.


You deprive yourself of Christ

if you close the door of your heart.

He could force his way in if he wished,

but will come only if invited.


                                              Saint Ambrose


Why Advent

December 3rd, 2018 Posted in writing | No Comments »

Advent is the season when we prepare to celebrate the great feast of Christmas, and it does so in at least three ways.

First of all, it reminds us to slow down. Advent is not a season for frantic running around, though our consumer culture seems to say the opposite. Advent is a more contemplative season, when we can make use of things like darkness and candle light and when we can (if we live in the right place) walk in the snow and look up at the stars.

Secondly, a major purpose of Advent is to remind us of our need and desire for God. We probably like to be self-sufficient and in control of our lives and the people and things around us. But Advent invites us to realize that we will never be at peace until we can embrace the truth that, though we may have many strengths, one of the greatest strengths is knowing our need and longing for God, whose coming we celebrate at Christmas.

Lastly, Advent is a season to realize that God does hear the desires of our hearts for him and is more than ready to respond to them. St. Augustine remarked that the whole of the Christian life can be seen as one great act of desire, and Advent reminds us that our desires are holy and will be fulfilled, since they prepare us to let God come in when he knocks at the door of our lives.

So, as we begin Advent, let’s take time to slow down and to get in touch with our desire and need for God. Then Christmas can truly be an answer to our Advent prayers and longings.

Shame in the Garden

November 16th, 2018 Posted in Uncategorized | No Comments »

It started so well, the relationship between our first parents and God. Each day, the Book of Genesis suggests, God, Adam, and Eve would meet in the afternoon breeze to spend time with each other talking, listening and walking through Eden.

One day, God came as usual, but Adam and Eve weren’t there. So God called out, “Adam/Eve where are you?” And they came out of hiding, wearing loincloths they had made out of fig leaves because they were afraid that God would see them in their nakedness. So God asked them, “Who told you were naked?that is, “Who told you that you should be ashamed of who you are and be afraid to stand in my presence?

What had happened, of course, is that Adam and Eve had disobeyed God’s commandment not to eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, thus breaking the bond of trust and intimacy they had with God. They must have thought the shame they felt towards themselves would be just a pale reflection of the disappointment and anger God would surely feel towards them.

So when God told them they would have to leave the Garden, they might have not been surprised; it’s even possible they had on their own decided they could no longer remain. After all, how could they stay with a God who had been so loving and generous toward them and whom they had disobeyed so callously?

But if that was what they thought (and we think), that only shows how wrong human beings are when it comes to understanding God’s love. We may think God’s response to sin is anger and punishment. But by contemplating Jesus on the cross we might begin to glimpse the amazing truth that God’s response to our sin is not disgust with us or a desire to punish, but, instead, a selfless act of love which God will never go back on, even if we don’t deserve such love or fully comprehend it.

Jesus’ life, death and resurrection show us that we may turn away from God, but God never turns away from us. And if we turn back to God, we will find welcome into a new and everlasting Eden of love and friendship with God, and there will be no more sin or shame.